Secret #1: Deepen Trust (1) "My husband is Having an Affair" (4) "I Can't Face Another Christmas with This Man" (11) "I had a Fling with My Boss" (18) "My Husband is Sleeping with My Best Friend" (24) "He Placed a Personal Ad" (30) "He Drinks Too Much" (35) "My Secret is Destroying Our Marriage" (41)
Secret #2: Communicate (49) "He Criticizes Everything I Do" (53) "My Perfect Husband Wants Out" (59) "We Have Nothing in Common Anymore" (65) "He Always Tunes Me Out" (72) "He's Ashamed of Me" (79) "He Expects Me to Give Up My Life" (85) "He's So Irresponsible" (91) "Our Baby was Stillborn" (98)
Secret #3: Fight Fair "My Husband is so Moody" (110) "He Says I'm Pushing Him Away" (117) "He's Never There for Me" (124) "He's Always Angry" (135) "We Fight All the Time (142) "He Hit Me" (148) "He's Jealous of My Success" (158)
Secret #4: Defuse Power Struggles (165) "He Won't Do His Share" (169) "My Husband Wants a Perfect Housewife" (176) "He's a Child, Not a Husband" (182) "My Husband is a Perfectionist" (190) "He Needs Me Too Much" (196) "He's Never Home" (203) "My In-Laws Are Driving Me Crazy" (209) Secret #5: Be Money Smart (217) "We Always Fight About Money" (221) "My Husband is So Cheap" (228) "My Husband is Have a Midlife Crisis" (234) "My Compulsive Shopping is Ruining Our Marriage" (241) "My Job Makes Me Happier Than He Does" (247) "He Spends Too Much" (253) "My Husband Is a Compulsive Gambler" (259)
Secret #6: Make Love (267) "He's Never in the Mood" (271) "He Had a One-Night Stand" (279) "We Haven't Had Sex in Years" (285) "We Can't Have a Baby" (291) "My Husband is Impotent" (299) "He No Longer Thinks I'm Sexy" (307) "My Husband Keeps Calling Those Sex Hotlines" (313)
Secret #7: Team Up (321) "He's a Super Dad but an Awful Husband" (325) "My Stepdaughters Are Destroying Our Marriage" (332) "He's Spoiling Our Son" (339) "Our Daughter is on Drugs" (346) "I Wish I Had an Empty Nest" (353) "We Had to Give Up Our Baby" (360) "I Love My Kids More Than I Love My Husband" (366)
Workbook: Checklists and Strategies (373) A Quiz for Wives (376) A Quiz for Husbands (377) Trust (378) Communication (385) Anger (392) Power and Control (399) Sex (406) Money (414) Team Up (422)
